Tuesday, January 09, 2007,
WOOOHHOO... weiliang's van... nice??
me n gorgeous after oyur swim!!! =)
weiliang's van with rubbish bin on top!!!!
http://modulonus.blogspot.com/2006/12/first-release.htmlhahahaha... fun!!! does it look like a van to u?? its ah bang's bdae so we decided we had to make him feel special... then we just suddenly decided to wrap his van in toilet paper... the we added post=its to write message n pasted lotsa stuff cut out frm newspaper... like "$4.95" and "super buy!!!" haahahha... weiliang's nick says that he thanks us all for uur artistic creation hhehehehe... hall life... pros n cons... but i guess when we r old we all need some gd memories to look back on ya?? hahaha
aniwaes while im writing blog now im toking to my mum on msn... now she has learnt how to copy my emoticons and use them... then she alwaz nudges me when i dun respond... she just bought a webcam n is playing wif it... she suddenly toked abt work stuff on msn cuz her boss came in.. haha... how cool is tat man?? hahaha... well. some may say haiyah, surely there are those very sucessful women there hu r more techno savvy than my mum, i think shes damn cool cuz there is apparently many mums hu cant even switch on coms or type sms =) so tis links me to think of somethg... everythg n concept is derived from comparison... in fact our lives are shaped very much by comparing things and the thgs we decide to use for comparison...
i remember tis line from a show, as i have often said... the human was captured and was scolding the vampire "u monster!!!!"... then the vampire replied "when i turn the whole world into vampires, humans will be the monsters!!"... why do we feel that the present PAP rule is very efficient?? its derived from comparing the other countries' government and perhaps to the old times when we were ruled by the british (maybe tats why we had to learn abt british rule?)... why do one feel that a girl is very pretty?? its because she looks nicer than many less pretty girls... in countries where fat girls form the majority and are deemed to be pretty, put miss universe there n she will become an eyesore to the man...
so tis has very much to do wif how happy our lives are... when we choose the thgs we make comparisons wif, we r in fact choosing to be happy or not happy, hence i feel if we can consciously choose the correct comparisons, we will be much happier in our lives... for example, u r a person hu hates smokers... for ya sake, ya best fren cut down on smoking from one pack a day to 3/4 pack a day... perhaps to us, tis is not much difference... this is where we choose the object of comparison for judgement... say all ya frens are non smoker, but ya best fren is a smoker, comparing ya fren hu has smoked long before knowing u to the other frens in ya circle, u will never be happy until he totally quits... in this process, u might choose to ignore his efforts n ya fren on the other hand, might feel dejected and on the overall, the relationship will take a further decline in love... hence to me, the right object of comparison will be ya fren himself, that is his past n present self... if u manage to see it this way, the joy n love derived from this effort ya fren has made can bring the frenship to the next level!!
in our daily lives there exists many issues that are controversial n comparisons are wad makes this controversial... say issues like drinking, pre marital sex, prostitution, government models... we r often bounded by society's pressures to think somethg is rite or somethg is wrong but we have never realli tried to accept n understand some of the thgs we deem are not right... say guys watchg pornography, isnt that damn wrong?? but come to think of it... say a guy totally refuses to watch porn n had never had sex before marriage... even after his marriage he refuses to watch it, feeling its morally wrong n he proceeds to have sex wif his wife n has no idea at all how to go about it... after sometime, the wife might start to lose interest in sex n hence cause a permanent handicap in the couple's sexual life that might ultimately destroy the relationship... comparing a guy hu watches moderate amt of pornography n is able to let his wife enjoy making love to a guy hu totally refuses watchg n makes his wife have poor sex due to feeling obliged... which is rite n which is wrong?? say being a musician in singapore... choosing this path seems very difficult for survival in the future n one's parents might hence stop him from this path... the son might end up being a doctor with a car n everythg, yet everytime he has nothg to do n reflects on his life, he feels upset n deprived n hence unmotivated at work... in the case of a doctor, such lack of motivatn might be highly hazardous n fatal... comparing the happiness of the child's futures might bring some insight, comparing sucessful local musicians with the stereotypes might bring great insight into the decision...
perhaps there are many thgs that we have condemned or deemed impossible because of our failures to draw comparisons with alternatives and objects that will provide an angle to make the morally wrong seem rite and the impossible seem possible... i believe that there are many thgs out there that we can learn to accept n hence enrich our lives with this new founded openess... we might even get to enjoy life at a level we have never had before... perhaps this is bullshit to some of my readers... but then again, wad r u comparing this blog entry wif then?? think again, perhaps this entry wldnt be so bullshit after all =)
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